COLUMBIA (WACH)—Etiquette, according to Wikipedia, is defined as “a code of behavior that delineates expectations for social behavior.” Essentially, etiquette dictates how we conduct ourselves, not only at formal occasions, but also in routine situations.
Warren Buffet said “It takes 20 years to build a reputation, and 5 minutes to ruin it.” That quote and fundamental reality that is the mantra of etiquette experts such as the Southern Institute of Etiquette and Protocol’s Gerald Glascock. For the last 20 years, Glascock has traveled the country, teaching skills such has making a first impression, greetings, body language and more.
According to Glascock, a first impression is made in less than a second, so your initial response at the moment you meet someone can set the tone, and have an impact on your future dealings with that person.
“When someone enters a room, stand up” says Glascock, pointing out that people may not notice what you don’t do, but they will notice something that you do.
Glascock also suggests a firm hand shake, suggesting that the web area between your thumb and hand meet the other persons. Glascock says that a firm handshake also conveys a non verbal message.
It’s clear that the way you conduct yourself in any setting, a job interview, networking, or at a social event, can have a definite impact on how you are perceived, and can help or hurt, your professional or personal success.
Glascock will be returning to Good Day Columbia with more etiquette tips, as part of our “Good Behavior” series, teaching skills that can be used in settings such as job interviews and professional networking.
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